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Sanjay had 4 years of undergrad to find an American to marry

My sister's boyfriend tried immigrating from the USA and got denied at told it's so hard that unless he is sponsored by a job or married my sister. (Which they are not ready for) it's pretty much impossible for him to move here right now. So I think you need to update your Canada stuff.

@nannerfly345 \n1 second ago \nI am a dual, born & raised in Canadian but married an American and have lived in the USA for over 20 years and I believe you must rate any country's HEALTHCARE SYSTEM you should rate it based on ACCESS to the system. When you say America's Healthcare system is great for many but unavailable or nonexistent to a certain segment of the population means America's Healthcare System FAILS. That is just a FACT! Love America but miss Canada every single day.

Hell no! And that is coming from someone who has family members living in the States, was married to an American and has spent a lot of time there in New England, and in Florida. Titusville area of Florida is like my second home, but I would never move there. Not a fan of people having to carry guns with them everywhere they go, and healthcare for profit is wrong on so many levels. I have firsthand experience with that and it was as frightening as the gun culture down there.

Girl did more the hard work, boy married smart girl

His solution is to marry a trump, and build walls ..

Let's be realistic, Sanjay would just marry an American woman and get a spousal visa

It was so interesting to see the Pakistani couple scheming so hard to just find a way to get out of Pakistan the man cunningly schemed even in marrying a Pakistani girl,who will study in Australia & the guy will piggyback her to follow to Australia & scheme even to get his parents into Australua, whereas Indians only want to further their careers & maybe return to India in future.

Maybe it's just because of the news, but really, the school shootings are TOP of mind for me. Like, how is that even possible, to have that many crazy people who want to murder children, and not only that, but those crazy people have access to guns? \nI don't say anything to my American cousins, as I realize that they have ties, they've married Americans, they've built a life, and there's no sense me freaking out about things that they won't change, and insulting their choices.\nBut... I was SHOCKED that even after they started having children, they still didn't move back to Canada. They can do it, they have dual citizenship! \n???\nIt's like sending your kids to school on a boat in a river full of crocodiles. It's not guaranteed that nothing bad will happen to them, and it's hard to let them go, but you trust and pray and hope for the best.\nAnd then you see your cousin's kids sailing down that same river sitting on a log with their feet dangling into the water! It's horrifying, even if they assure you that usually the crocs don't come to this side of the river, and mostly they're not hungry in the morning anyway. It seems like reckless disregard. And for what? So the parents can make more money? It's not worth it in my opinion.

Back in the 1990s about 10 of us were recently graduated nurses from Canada. Going to the states in Texas was Big Adventure. Two of us stayed because they got married but the rest of us move back to Canada within about 5 to 8 years. I loved it down there but Canada felt safer to raise a family. All three of my kids were born down there. We all still love America, Canada's less-populated property is cheaper if you don't live in the major cities, but I think we all mostly maoved back because of family reasons. There is no real Financial incentive to stay because the lifestyles are so similar.

My daughter, with Irish Father (me) and Japanese Mother, much prefers the USA.\nShe graduated from Juilliard and got her green card in the US.\nAfter living in NYC for 15 years (and married) she and her Maryland husband came to Canada.\n5 years later they went back to Virginia and they are 20 times more happy.\nPS: If they were to become SICK in the US, they would head back to Toronto - but other than that they HATE Canada ?? and they LOVE ❤️ the US ??

My American husband and I moved to Los Angeles from Montreal, because of the fact there was still a lot of live music compared to other places. It was a great 17 years of music but guns started to be more of an issue. Health care was big, and was going to affect us soon, and then tRUmp came in . We knew that the changes were NOT going to be for better health care, or better gun laws, or better immigration policies, and we moved back to Canada. Now we don't even want to visit because of the current situation re all the aforementioned issues. I wouldn't dream of moving back. And numerous friends have asked how can they get into Canada.The Canadian immigration site crashed when tRump won. if not married to a Canadian, most people would be rejected. i appreciate our system of government; tRump would have been tossed out early on with a Vote of No Confidence.

Canadian here with many friends in the US. Daughter married an American and he immigrated to Canada last year after he finished his military service. The original plan was that she would join him in the States for a few years before he got out. Once Trump was elected and the USA went bat-crap crazy with the war on women's rights, the lgbtq+ community and truth and justice for all (not just those with money or power) she told her husband she'd wait for him up here. It's a big fat no thank you. Y'all have lost your way; broke your moral compass and feel that it's okay to trample on the rights of others.

Just marry a citizen, immigration situation solved.

Had an aunt who got into the united states before the quota system of 1960s was abolished.\nMy dad would have followed but the quotas for danes was spend.\n\nShe got married to a guy having an idea about hospital plastics and that made hundreds of millions.\nI visited her from time to time and she was always kind to let her extended family stay. Eventhough we rarely agreed on anything...\n\nShe passed away from alzheimers this year. \nI shall extend the same courtesy to my family as she showed...

American immegration is outdated I mean the nation used to immigrate a lot but now there's just a lot of Americans. Being born in US soil or marrying into the system is the most popular strategy for immigration.

Not entirely correct. A h1b visa could get married and have children born in America. That being said the child of a us citizen is their backdoor into America

I’m a first generation American. My mom married a US citizen lol process was super easy hahahaha ?

Sanjay should marry citizen woman. True love.

I was a French exchange student for my masters at UCSD. I met my current fiancé a couple years ago at the start of my masters and he proposed right before I left. I just got my appointment at the Paris embassy, a year after we started the K1 visa process. It’s a long, expensive and very frustrating process but I can’t wait to marry him and go to the beach again! When we first submitted our application and we looked at the wait times with the lawyer, I was so relieved to see that for French immigrants, the wait times are 1/10th of most other countries. China, Philippines, India and South American countries have it way worst. Great video as usual ❤

I could only think of one thing while listening to Sanjay’s story. Why wouldn’t he just marry an American? Like it really is not that hard, im sure there are countless Americans who would be more than willing to do it as a favor, or maybe simply try falling in love? lol Like it’s not that big of a deal, just marry a friend from college or a hobo and divorce after getting the green card, or find an old person who’s lonely. This is partly joking, but honestly is not a terrible option

Marry an American ?

Hello from Vancouver, BC! I would move to the USA. I was married to an American and only date American men, as weird as that sounds.

I was born in Austria in 1950. We immigrated to Quebec in 1951, grew up in Ste Agathe des Monts, 1 hour north of MTL. Married a lovely American, two grown boys, have a wonderful life but would rather be living in Canada but my 72 year old life is here now !!

At 65, I have managed to visit 35 of the US states. Each time I returned to Canada, I got down on my hands & knees to kiss the ground of this country. I felt instant stress relief as soon as I did return safely. These days, I never want to step foot there again. To make life more interesting, I have a brother in Chicago. There’s an oxymoron. He is a trucker that likes Nascar, has no children of his own & married a lovely American girl who already had children (now grown). He sees the variations between counties - he stays for the $$. He comes home for huge doses of Canada & family.

PLEASE LISTEN TO WHAT HAPPENED TO ME.I WOULD LIKE A RESPONSE FROM YOU!!!...I WAS FALSELY ACCUSSED OF A CRIME BY A WHORE THAT I WAS ABOUT TO MARRY FROM COLOMBIA., WHOM I BROUGHT HERE ON A FIANCEE VISA… ALL SHE HAD TO DO ONCE SHE GOT HERE, WAS TO STATE THAT I FORCED HER TO BECOME A SLAVE, AND POINTED A GUN TO HER HEAD.. I FOUND OUT LATTER, THAT THERE ARE ACTUALLY SCHOOLS IN LATIN AMERICAN COUNTRIES THAT WILL TRAIN SUCH PEOPLE,.. ON HOW TO BEAT THE UNTIED STATES LAW’S, USING THE “U” VISA.THIS ALLOWS ANY FALSE ACCUSATION, MERELY THE ACCUSATION TO GAIN ENTRANCE INTO THE UNITED STATES!!..PLEASE GO AND RESEARCH THIS FOR YOURSELF !....ALMOST NO ONE KNOWS ABOUT THIS LAW, BUT THE SCUM THAT THE DEMOCRATS WANT TO ALLOW INTO THIS COUNTRY !...….IT IS USED 100’S OF TIMES A DAY…, EVERY DAY.. TO INDICT INNOCENT AMERICAN CITIZENS, WITH MERELY ONE LIE !!...AND NOT ONE SINGLE WITNESS AGAINST ME, OTHER THEN THAT WHORE!!!!!!!....AND….IS STILL DONE EVEN TO THIS VERY DAY !!... BUT IT IS NEVER REPORTED BY THE LEFT WING LIBERAL DEMOCRATIC CONTROLLED PRESS !!!!!!!!..DONT BELIEVE ME ????……GO RESEARCH THE “U” VISA YOURSELF AND SEE!..IT WAS CREATED BY ALL DEMOCRATS AND MADE LAW..IN ORDER TO HAVE THESE SCUM PEOPLE BECOME UNITED STATES CITIZENS, NOT ONLY THAT, BUT ONCE THEY ARE IN THE STATES,..IF THEY SHIT OUT A BABY, THEY AUTOMATICALY BECOME AMERICAN CITIZENS !....ITS THE GODS TRUTH ! RESEARCH THIS FOR YOURSELF, IF YOU DON’T BELIEVE ME !!.. THIS HAPPENS 1,00’S OF TIMES A DAY,.EVERY SINGLE DAY!.DON’T BELIEVE ME ??.........GO RESEARCH THIS FOR YOURSELF !!!!!... THEN,…THEY GET FREE HOUSING, FOOD STAMPS, WELFARE, MEDICAL ASSISTANCE,…AND THE LIST GOES ON !!!.. IT’S THE GODS TRUTH !!!.....MY HEARING WENT ON FOR 9 MONTHS... ON ONE LIE ONLY, .......I LOST OVER $300,000 LONG STORY SHORT...ATTENTION TO THE READER!.. THERE ARE SCHOOLS IN SOUTH AMERICAN COUNTRIES, WHO TEACH THESE WHORES HOW TO BEAT OUR SYSTEM..AND THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT,!!!.....THEY USE OUR OWN LAWS TO WORK AGAINST US !.. JOE BIDEN WANTS THEM HERE TO VOTE DEMOCRAT.. AND ALL OF THE ESTIMATED 27 MILLION,..YES,..I SAID 27 MILLION ILLEGAL IMMIGRANTS ….WHO SLITHERED INTO THIS COUNTRY….ARE HERE WITH THE DEMOCRATIC PARTY’S HELP!!! DON’T BELIEVE ME ?..GO THE THE INTER NET, AND VERIFY THIS FOR YOURSELF !!...... BEFORE GOD, I TELL YOU THE TRUTH !!!!!....I SENT OVER 100 LETTERS TO FEDERAL AND LOCAL OFFICIALS, AND NOBODY GAVE A RATS ASS, THAT IS ALSO TRUE…, THIS HAPPENED MANY YEARS AGO, AND KEEP IN MIND, WITH OUT NOT ONE SINGLE WITNESS AGAINST ME !!!!!!....ITS THE GOD’S TRUTH !!!!......BUT….. THIS IS STILL HAPPENING TO DAY !.. WE ARE NOW OVER 32 TRILLION DOLLARS IN DEBT, WITH ABSOLUTELY NO WAY TO PAY IT OFF!.THAT IS THE GOD’S TRUTH !....DON’T BELIEVE ME ?....GO RESEARCH THIS FOR YOURSELF!... ……SCUM DEMOCRATS DON’T GIVE A RATS A ABOUT THE AMERICAN TAX PAYER..BUT BY ALLOWING ALL THIS ILLEGAL SCUM INTO OUR COUNTRY, THEY ARE BUYING THEIR VOTE WITH OUR TAX MONEY !.....I SPIT ON ALL OF THEM !!!!!…

I married an American woman that have move from US to Montréal and now speaking a very good french. She will never move back to US except if the political atmosphere improve a lot.

I lived in the US for most of my adult life, so until around 10 years ago. I lived in the South, including Florida (which I loved at the time although the residents there had a crappy attitude). My husband was a refugee in the 70s and is a Canadian, so we moved up here after marrying. I would NOT consider moving back willingly. The politics, the racism, the anti-LGBTQ, anti-women, anti-intelligence, the lack of health care...it all just makes for a really ugly existence. That said, it's also getting tough to stay here due to housing prices.

One of my friends wife, who just five years back, came to India from Canada, born and brought up in Canada. She got married to Indian guy a rich guy I must say she’s a New Delhi from past 5 six years right now. She has not even seen Canada and she’s not even willing to go there for a holiday. What’s your answer to that?

1. You have mass shooting EVERY F'ING DAY! EVERY DAY!!!!! \n2. The fact you just rushed past the abortion issue is concerning considering 50% of the pop is women, it is a vital area to consider if you care at all about women and their rights and right to choose. \n3. Healthcare in general.\n4. As a gay married man of 20 years your republicans can get bent. \n5. Your political corruption is INSANE and VERY evident. I had an american friend tell me that Trump did a good job cause N Korea and Russia didn't bomb the US while he was in office. \n6.

I'm married to an American citizen here in Canada. There isn't much hope in H E double hockey sticks... That we would ever consider moving to the USA. Way too many crazy people in politics and the government. Not to mention all the haters in the USA.

As a person living in Turkey, I say that my country has been invaded. Refugees coming to our country form Arab tribes, openly harassing Turkish girls and calling them prostitutes, beating our children who oppose them. They kidnap them to their country and marry them, worse still, they sell them in women's markets instead of getting married. I used to be a Muslim in your country, but when I saw assets like this, I became an atheist.

If it wasn't for being married with children, I would have moved to the freest place in North America, Florida.

I would love to move to US but unfortunately I do not have a career that’s in high enough demand down there to get a green card, and I’m already married so that’s not an option….need to win lotto so I can invest 500k into US business and employee people I guess?

Life is difficult. Married and both on Study visa. Tough life after marriage 2010 to 2015. After great job in Unilever. Great wife supporting husband during hardship.

The general rule is that the only reason Canadians would move to the USA is if they marry and decide as a couple to live there or a job-either a transfer or an incredible deal of safety (silicon valley) has a lot of ex pats I think ?

My American husband and I choose Canada when we first got married due to health care and educational reasons. My husband has been in Canada for almost 13 years and says he would never move back to the US. I joke about moving to California or Hawaii (somewhere warm) any time it gets to -30 Celsius or colder and he says over his dead body will he ever go back.

I was born and bred in New York and married a nice lady in Winnipeg and now I am a Canadian citizen for good. I love it up here .in the white north.

I'm a Quebecois, I'm married to an American. Hell no ? ? ... was the answer to this question. My husband had an opportunity in Texas (double his salary)... Do you want to move there? I didn't let him finish!! Out of question... I will not go to that social nightmare (politics, woman rights, racism, health, education, gun violence, religion, transphobia, fachisim, patriotism, extreme capitalism, etc) plus the weather!!! No way... Hors de question!! Ni pense même pas!!! Na, niet, nada, non, nooooope? ?

I know a lot of people who moved to the US for career reasons — it’s more active in terms of corporate finance/capital markets. Having said that, many look to move back once they marry and have family.

There are places in the States that I love to visit (although not right now, because I've never had a passport). I used to be in a drum corp, and we did a lot of parades and field shows down there in New York State and Pennsylvania, and had a great time. But I would never move there. I probably couldn't afford health care there anyway. My niece married a lovely guy from Maine, and he was planning on moving up here, but for unexpected family reasons, they ended up staying there. But he is increasingly worried about the political climate.

IF… I met my dream Hollywood crush and she said USA or nothing I might consider it if I couldn’t convince her otherwise. In all honesty I leave the house without locking the door regularly I’ve never met anyone who owns a gun let alone seen one outside of a cops holster, and agree that people have the right to choose what they do with their body and who they want to marry, government should never take woman’s or lgbtq rights from them. It’s hard to imagine in a developed country this is still an issue in 2023

My uncle moved to Texas when he married my Texan aunt, but I’m fairly certain that’s only because she has a medical condition that means she physically cannot endure the temperatures we get here in Canada in the winter months. She would have quite literally been housebound for a third of the year every year if she came up here.\n\nEdit: Also, Canada may have a smaller population than the US, but we actually have the second-largest total land mass out of all the countries in the world. Russia is the only country with more land.\n\nEdit 2: In 2022, there were a total of 51 school shootings. That’s more than 4 school shootings *per month.* Of course we don’t trust the USA to be a safe place for children. Especially since even if you survive the shooting, there’s a good chance you’ll be bankrupted by injury.

I am a Canadian who moved to the States. I never wanted to but I fell in love with an American and it made sense for me to move down after we got married. I has finished school and he was not yet. 17 years later and I still miss Canada but life down here will do. I moved to the border so I could have my cake and eat it too.

A colleague was a bank manager in the south. Medical insurance up the ying-yang. When he had a heart attack, the bank fired him. This resulted in the loss of his insurance, his home and investments, ...and he was reduced to working part time for a pittance at a major retailer. Fortunately for him, he'd had the good sense to marry a Canadian years before this disaster. She and her family moved him to Canada where he received free medical care and continuing support, enabling him to thrive. His career was blown but his wife picked up the ball and built a real estate sales business in Canada.

Without considering people who marry Americans, there are only two major reasons any born and bred Canadian would move to the US and they are climate and economic opportunity. \nIf however you are of retirement age and have a bit of money, becoming a snowbird is still a viable option. Personally, I'd rather be salt water fishing out of Mobile, Alabama in February than stuck indoors, cursing the weather in Ontario.....but that's just me.

The only reason I've ever heard of Canadians moving to the U.S. were job opportunities, or falling in love with and marrying an American.

Absolutely NO! When I married my American husband, I brought him here to Canada. If you ask him now if he would want to move back he says “absolutely not!” Lolol It’s not just about medical issues either.

Its more about the prices as well. If you compare today with the mortgage value and increase of rate of interest.. it is actually very hard to afford a house. 99% immigrants wont take that level of risk to leave their jobs if they married.

Please this is by the way just asking , what if you came with visitors visa , and you luck to find a relationship and marry is it possible ? Or does it happen imagination wan kill me. ?