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I lived for 14 years in America but moved back to Canada when I became a mom. No way was I raising my daughters in the USA. Too much gun violence. I brought my American husband with me and he loves Canada. He says he’ll never go back. So much better here.

gee.. hard to express properly.. either me too old?!? or .. my apple chit.. not functioning properly?!! ?‍?️??\nP/S … retired hockey bots’ mom

Sir The first reason you talk about was why my application was refuse, insufficient fun and assets, I use my mom as posore and I a certificate of are business alone and that certificate is over 20years,, what can I do because I want to reapply, this time I want to include all are properties and receipt of payment and receipt giving to her when getting those properties.

Depends on hands you landed on.' The motive that brought you here' the focus in a foreign country' the effort you put to change your destiny too to live a better life. Usa and canada is a place of education and business to grow. What is in your mind? There re alot of kenyans living great life in usa and canada. Those who follow ghetto behaviors like them we found' they copied those behaviors and their life become worse than in kenya. Again power of choice. I am a single mom living in usa. Brought kids here saw them through education and they re doing good. Your purpose will drive you to your desire. Many voices will be heard but life in foreingn countries is not bad. Some people go back home and after few years come back. Why is life is that bad

Not everyone 's destiny is in canada,some people are rich,wealthy, and happier in Africa,while others are committing suicide in America and Canada, just find your place of destiny. A lady from nigerian moved to canada and in 2 years she bought a house and brought in her 2 siblings and mom.

Been in Canada for approximately 25 years. I can say that the effect that Canada has on a legal immigrant is neither here nor there. If you can make lemonade out of any lemon you’re dealt, you will thrive in Canada (and anywhere else where your efforts are not overwhelmingly quashed by corruption, blatant racism or other forms of segregation). \n \nLynn, I was a lecturer in Kenya, went back to school here in Canada after wallowing in culture shock the first year, then circled back to teaching in college again after an arduous journey in school, but this time in a different field. \n \nAfter becoming a single mother of four kids, I had to also hustle on the side to build a small business empire along my life’s ladder. Partnership with God, goal clarity, the get-up-and-go, and relentlessness truly work. It isn’t the size of the dog but the fight in the dog that does it, regardless of where you live. \n \nThe starting point for a new immigrant can be very low due to the weather, unpreparedness and culture shock, but if you know that the only way is up, and are self-motivated, those challenges are soon behind you as the tests become testimonies. \n \nBy comparison people have more human rights here regardless of their status. The wheels of justice grind slow but they do grind fine. Women and children have equal rights with men. Politicians are mostly there to serve not necessarily to exploit. \n \nOpportunities for self-development galore - including being trained to become employable and going to school at any age (sometimes for free while you are still at the bottom of the ladder). There are food banks so you never go hungry if it came to that. The disabled are better treated with dignity. \n \nThere are prolonged parental leaves for both moms and dads for up to 18 months. Commensurate with earnings, parents under certain thresholds are given Canada child tax benefits and other supplements for each child under 18 years of age. \n \nDepending on the number of kids and their ages, the money can add up handsomely. Not to mention that there’s no tuition to pay for primary and high school students. Tuition fees start at post-secondary level. \n \nTo see a doctor is free as it is paid for by taxes. It the meds that you and/or your insurance pays for. Some medical equipments may be paid for by either or both the individual/insurance and the government depending on eligibility. \n \nBy and large, there’s cleanliness of common spaces. There’s also safety and relative peace. At least wherever I have lived, I can’t tell you how many times I forgot to lock my door with impunity. \n \nThere’s a lot more stressful work here in my opinion, but like you said Lynn, systems work a lot more efficiently and effectively. \n \nThe elephant in the room is the extra hard work that those living abroad must put in to fulfil expectations back home. Also known as black tax, the overwhelming financial dependency of relatives on their diasporan loved ones places undue stress on many here, especially because there are no short cuts to getting money here. \n \nAnyway, Lynn, thanks for such a great topical issue you’ve shared. I have to stop here as I have written a lot. Hope this helps someone on this forum. \n \nAnd last but not least, you’ll be proud to hear that even though Canada has been good to me, my face may now be turning towards home to see how I can be of use to mama Africa. Super excited!

The people that come here thinking it is some easy life with gold paved streets you have NO IDEA. My mom came here when me and my sister were still very young. We lived in a tiny town my mom worked at a cannery and motel cleaning rooms. She worked 5 jobs before she saved enough to move to Toronto. We lived in a shelter for mothers and children in Toronto. We finally settled in affordable housing (after long waitlist). Folks be warned, it is not an easy life. The climb is challenging- it is a climb out of a pit up a mountain. The country is beautiful and peaceful but life is not easy. You have to work very hard to make a decent life for yourself.

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Talwinder singh parmar belongs to my mom village I’m also same rajput parmar but I don’t support this shit but somehow Indian government is not providing jobs to rajput community and jatts 80% going to sc it is big impacts on our community and our state’s Punjab going down with green revolution and farmers is dying

My nana is from the UK originally and she has been living in Canada for 40+ years now and still has not become a Canadian citizen, not because she couldn't but because she never had to. She gave birth to my mom in Canada making my mom Canadian. I was born in the United States but since my mom was a Canadian citizen I was also a Canadian citizen. A lot of people like to bring up the housing crisis as a potential downside to having a bunch of immigrants but that just isn't the case. We have one of the lowest population densities of all of the countries in the world, and yet we all choose to live in high concentration areas and those that own the land in and around those concentrated areas know they can charge whatever they want because if you're not near the main 1-3 cities in your province it drastically cuts down on your land's value as far as housing goes so there is no incentive for anyone to build housing out there. Build more houses, we have the space. Figger it out.

My sister grew up in Toronto with her Mom while I was with our dad about an hour outside of the GTA. Even back in 2003 when I would come to visit my sister, or just go on class trips you could smell the city before you ever saw it... Torontonians had a bad reputation of thinking they were in the center of the universe, and it always just put me off of the city. It's not that I would ever want someone to not come to Canada... but there are just so many better places to live in Ontario, let alone the rest of the country... that why would you ever want to subject yourself to what T.O. has become?

In general I like Toronto, I lived there for a couple of yrs a long time ago, but with these prices, I won't move back, forget it. It is impossible to live there, period. I live in London and even over here the prices became much higher than before. My mom is in real estate, renting out bachelor apartments and she is nice, she doesn't rip ppl off, she rents them for reasonable prices, utilities, parking included like in the good old days and ppl sometimes beg her to pick them to move in, it's that bad. No one wants to move out once someone moves in. Gee, I wonder why.

Canada is a wonderful country ….human being are never stratified no matter what they live ..in canada..we have .FREE SCHOOL EDUCATION ….FREE HEALTH CARE …SINGLE MOM….GIVEN MONEY BY GOVT….HUMAN RIGHTS …FOOD BANKS …FOR THE POOR ….PEOPLE WITH DIABILITY ??ARE GIVEN MONEY AND CARED FOR THE REST THEIR LIVES AND THEIR RELATIVES ….ARE NOT ASKED BY THE GOVT TO PAY FOR THEIR CARE ???SO STOP WITH ON HATE ON. ???CANADA???AM KENYA ??KIKYUY GIRL ??IN CANAD 20 yrs

Hi Lynn. First of, I would like to say that I'm such a huge fan of yours. Since you started at Tuko and still following to date. You are an inspiration to me and so many people out there. I love and respect what you stand for and your work. I completely resonate with everything you are about. Second, I've lived in Canada for over 30 years now. I am Eritrean and was born in Kenya. Moved to Canada when I was about 9 and have lived here since with my family. I have to say that for us, Canada has been a God Send. It has helped us in so many ways, and we are so grateful for the opportunities and life it has given my family. From health care to schooling and job opportunities. We also cane here in 1989. So times and cost of living was very different than it is now. Of course, times have changed now, and the economy and standard of living have too. There are pros and cons to everywhere we live in the world. Everyone is different and has different experiences. There are various factors that may affect everyone's perspectives and experiences when they come to Canada, whether it was a long time ago or recently. Some factors could be, weather, economy, feeling lonely ( no family), language barriers, support...etc. Change is not easy at all and can affect t your whole emotional, mental, and spiritual well-being. Social life here is also not like it us back home...just alot of factors. People here work and work to make it. My mom brought us here as a single widowed mom. My sister and I were very young. But she was determined to give us a better life and worked her whole life, and it has paid off. It depends on how you look at everything and what your goal is. My mother was determined and made it happen and has raised us on her own very successfully. She loves Canada and appreciates it for everything it has done for us. Everyone's experiences are different. You have to do your research before coming and come with an open mind. Overall... Canada for us has been a blessing. \n\nI hope that helps somehow. But again, everyone's perspective and experiences are just as valid and rightfully so. \n\nI hope to meet you someday. Love you, Lynn, From Canada ?? ❤️

Am a kenyan Canadian and living in canada is the best decision I have ever taken. Lot of kenyan are paying agencies to come to canada through visit permit. People should blame agencies who promise them jobs not canada government . When you come to canada through visit permit you need to change to work permit or study permit. Actually there are thousands of kenyan who have come through visit permit and they are claiming refugee status. Canadian Government is doing its part by giving all claimed refugees shelter and give the money for upkeep. When you have visit permit you can't work in canada but you can convert it to work permit which is not easy but an expensive process. You need to get a company that can process you lMIA that labour market Impact assessment . You need skills to get a company to apply you Lmia or uende China ya maji you pay Indians who have companies in kenya $30-$40 to apply for you lmia. Or you can convert your visit permit to study permit and universities here are damn expensive. Getting a Canadian to marry you for status is very hard. In short am trying to say if you do not come through work permit or landed immigrants life wil be tough use the money you are paying agencies to start something in your country. They are so many opportunities in canada if you have the right papers or status. As for me am a happy single mom who as accomplished alot here and I love canada .

Hi mom, greetings. Please how can I get to you?

Hi Thanks for such informative vieo. I do have a question. Can I provide my mom's Indian passport for both travel and Nationality document?

We can't let these crimes continue. If india wants to take out criminals, ask for extradition. They can't just come and go like we are their mom.\nWe need to start investing more heavily into our national security.

So sad. My Mom’s family all lived in Toronto and my earliest memory of it goes back to 1964. It was always my favourite city and I’ve seen many. It changed so much over the years. For me the best period was 1967-81. Despite these problems I still love it in my heart.

Part of the problem that no body mentions is how some tenants exploit the system making mom and pop landlords reluctant to rent out. Landlords with deep pockets jack up rent prices to account for these “shady tenants”. It is a small percentage but it takes away valuable housing units the city desperately needs.

Hello my father is expired and i apply for visa. For my mom can i mentioned dad's death certificate and.. Can i attached my mother ans my family proof as by birth certificate... And can mentioned marriage certificate for me and my wife proof? In mother's visa application?

He pronounced Regina wrong. It gina not geena. Anyway, we have a problem with homelessness in this city, too. The high price of rent doesn't make it easy for people. I can't even live on my own and still live with my mom because I don't make enough at my job.

I happened to watch this video today, very interesting and natural conversation of two moms. They discussed everything based on their personal experience. Enjoyed it a lot. Everything they said so true and relatable.

So happy for you you are so strong and your mom dad is so lucky to have you in her life as her first daughter so many blessings for you ?

My mom had a work visa for many decades and was deported last year because that’s when my little sister turned 18…\nAlso my dad applied for citizenship in 2000 and finally got his residency THIS year. The US immigration system is a joke

OK how far south is Venezuela?? Explain how they get all the way the fuck up here through all the other I don’t know countries?? I’m sorry, but my mom is not a citizen of this country but she got here legally. Done all the right shit learn the language you know all that fucking shit that you’re supposed to do so yeah I’m against all this bullshit Illegal crap.

Hi\nI applied for my mom last week. When i got the biometric letter, i found out that i put in the wrong date of birth. How do i correct it? Do i need to withdraw and re-apply?

They are coming for their children that usa let in to give to pedophiles. Moms and dads are fighting to come in to rescue their children...

When you hug your mom ,dad,tears come byself

Im so proud of you Malaika. Mai apke mom vlogs high school se dekh rhi hu. Apke yha aane pe mai bhot khush hu. I hope college goes well for you❤❤ and youre really lucky you got the best dad, he kind of reminds me of my own

Ap ka Jo pichla vlog dakha tha phla ap ki mom ka vlog dakha or ma boht emotional ho gai wo dakh k lakin aj apka vlog dakha to Ma relax hwi k ap whan set ho jayn gi inshallah ❤❤❤❤❤❤

We miss you in your mom vlog.

U r so talented and love ur and ur mom's content❤

Me and my mom we felt emotional saying her goodbye to her family you are incredible and mashallah so mature and really confident mashallah God bless you stay blessed!!?

Masha Allah MashaAllah ♥️ Malaika you don't even imagine how happy I am for you I know it's really hard to say goodbye but trust me you are the luckiest person that you get this amazing opportunity to show yourself to world not everyone get this May God Bless you and make your journey easy & successful for U ♥️ I also want to study abroad please pray for me too I hope you read my comment I follow ur mom when she starting YouTube Alhumdullillah till today I am a proud subscriber of you and Aunty ♥️♥️♥️\nLots of love and prayers

All the best ?\n I'm amazed, your mom's struggling, woh krna chahti thiii and she did it.

I was waiting for ur vlog and since ur mom uploaded ur Canada going vlog. I was thinking that have u reached Canada. What u would have been doing and stuff.

Malaika good luck to u \nI cry when I watched your mom's blog?

Finally the vlog is here ? my waiting is finished and when I see your mom she's cry and i all so cry ? because the one mother who always care of her child's ? ❤ big fan from Pakistan and Spain ❤?

I was coming to your house today to meet you because I know your address until I saw your vlog in your channel and your mom's on her

malaika api Allah apko hmasha hush rky mai hud a bati ho batiyo kay tu dill mom ki yrha hota ha bati tu wasy bi apny mama papa ki ladli hoti ha buhat muscial hota ha mama papa bhn bhai kay bgar rhna apna gur tu apna hi hota hana but mari dua ha Allah ko kamyab kry best of luck ❤❤❤❤

You are very strong don't cry if you cry ur mom will not feel good \nLoads of love and dua for you

Finally the vlog is here ? my waiting is finished and when I see your mom she's cry and i all so cry ? because the one mother who always care of her child's ? ❤️ big fan from Pakistan and Spain ❤️?

If we are applying for both parents with dad as primary and mom as a dependent, should we attach the same letter of invitation for both or edit the letter according to the applicant? For example, letter of invitation uploaded for dad must have only the invite details for dad in the content and remove mom's travel plans mention or we can add both details in same letter.

I hate this so much. I know it’s not these peoples fault that their countries aren’t helping them but America isn’t even helping its own people. Imagine how it feels to be from the US struggling and then these people come and somehow our country has the means to help them when they won’t not can’t won’t help their own. What other country do you know of where you can just decide to cross their boarder demand help and say you know what I’m just going to live here illegally now. And if we don’t help them they have all kinds of ways to sue the state and demand help even though they’re not even citizens. That’s what’s crazy to me. They make you do a bunch of stuff before you can travel and some countries won’t even let you visit let alone live there with or without a criminal record but these people can just walk right in. Any countries borders are important they are there for protection. Ours are not being protected which means the country is not protected. I just don’t see this turning out well for anybody, not them not us. There is a scene from the titanic that I’d like to relate this situation to. The scene where Roses mom is in the boat with that other lady who has new money the chubby one. She wanted to let people on the boat that were drowning around her, and dude wouldn’t let her. It wasn’t because he was being mean it was because if people started holding onto the boat and trying to get on the boat they would panic, and eventually everybody would swarm the boat. The boat would not have been able to hold the weight of everyone holding onto it. Well the same here there’s people who are already drowning, and other people from other countries want to come here, but all they’re gonna do is sink the ship, and then there will be no help for anybody and everyone will be doomed. No I have nothing against people coming here but not this way. I welcome anybody that wants to be here to work but not this way. America has its our own problems and the citizens pay taxes that are never used to help them. Instead the government gives money away to other countries like it’s nothing. I don’t mind helping anyone anywhere but when the money we pay the government doesn’t go to help it’s own citizens first idk that’s not right to me. We should be helping our own people first. Anyway this isn’t the right way to come I to America. This isn’t fair to the rest of us. We pick up the bill not the government. Help your own citizens America we need help too!!!!!!!

Hi I applied Visa for my parents through new portal yesterday . I got my mom BIL with in 4 hours but not for dad as of now . Dad is principal applicant.\nIs it normal?\nHow much time does it take to get BIL?

Parents are not here in this podcast.. only Moms are there.. Dads ko bhi pucho.. unki alag story hogi 100% ?

Disappointing you rushed over a respondent's feeling about the abortion issue in the US as it is completely on point. Health care costs are one thing (actually huge) but when you're forced to carry a fetus to term against your will (would any man?) that alone is why no woman would put her hand up to head to your neck of the woods - for her own sake and for that of her daughter's and any other female for that matter (Canadians tend to care about other people not just themselves). If you want to know why someone WOULD leave Canada for the US, it would likely be for family; or warmer weather...but at this point you guys are on fire and family can come visit us here. We are blessed here for so many reasons (fresh water, beautiful country, health care, freedom to choose, freedom to be gay or straight or whatever you are) and while my mom was American and I have cousins and even a nephew in Florida, and I used to love visiting my grandparents in Vermont and New Jersey as a kid, the whole landscape of the US has changed to one of in your face racism, hatred against women, the LGBTQ and everyone who is not caucasian, not to mention the whole gun business. You guys have lost any appeal whatsoever no matter how hard you crow about how great your country is. Everyone knows the truth about your history and the politically driven obsession to cover it up by attacking everything from books and what can be taught in schools. Just enough.

Dono mom’s bahot loyal hai mujhe to yehi baat Bahot achi lagi …baki India jaisi country koi nhi …baki sari baat to daana paani ki hai jahan jiska likha hai wo wanhi khayega ….janam bhumi ko hun kisi k sath compare nhi kar saktey ….or waheguru ji sey yehi ardass hai ki jo bhi apney parents ko bulata hai apney parents ki feelings ,emotions ko samjhey

I loved the genuinely beautiful the 2 ladies are speaking with no filter and the aunty is just like my mom ? she would hate Canada ?